Monday 12 October 2009

Malachi's Story


Malachi was born July 6, 2008 2 months early. My husband and I were busy going about our lives and getting ready to become foster parents. Thats when we got the call. A call that changed our lives for ever. Malachi was born to a mother who was unfit to care for him and DCFS had taken custody. Malachi was still in the hospital (he was there for the first 4 months of his life) and fighting for his life due to a host of medical issues. He was born exposed to cocaine, he was 2 months early and mom had no prenatal care. He was in heart failure and required and oxygen hood, he had 2 holes in his heart and only 1 valve and he also had Down syndrome. When that call came we didn't know what to say. We took a few days and decided that if God was calling us to be his parents, we had to obey. I still remember the first time I met Malachi. It was love a first sight. He was absolutely perfect. I didn't see Down syndrome, I saw a boy who God so graciously gave to us to love, perfect in every way and I couldn't wait to share him with our family and friends. Unfortunately, they didn't all see what we saw. They were fearful because they simply didn't know. A few people told us they didn't agree and that adopting Malachi was a mistake. Boy were they wrong. Soon after Malachi was placed with us he needed open heart surgery. It was a rough few weeks, but we made it through and we brought home a healthy little 7 month old who was full of life. We started to see his personality come out and my husband and I started to learn from him. We learned life lessons, we learned how to truly laugh, how to have faith like a child and most importantly we learned how to love unconditionally. Today Malachi has brought our family closer, I can see the extreme love and joy he brings to everyone he meets. There are still a few people who are fearful, but I know that with time Malachi will melt their hearts just like he did ours.After all, how couldn't you fall in love him?

Erin, Josh and Malachi


8 comments:

  1. I am IN LOVE with your little Malachi! I want him ha ha! My little guy is Benson, a few stories down from yours on this Ellie's Gift page. I want to meet you guys! My email is JudyLou22@hotmail.com Please contact me, for I have been feeling strongly in my heart the last few months about adopting a little black boy WITH Down Syndrome. I have never seen one and wondered if I would ever find one and seeing Malachi gives me hope. Please contact me. Thanks! Judy :) Http://McKenziejudydan.blogspot.com

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  2. Well isn't he the most adorable little boy. I am so happy that Malachi found your family. He sounds like he is so loved and that you all have learned so much from him. What an amazing story.

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  3. We have such similar stories. Malachi is beautiful, and a perfect addition to your family!

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  4. I could so totally fall in love with him!

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  5. I am so proud to see he story reaching out!
    With love, Auntie Steph

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  6. what a handsome little man you have:) thanks for sharing your story. it is a wonderful one:)

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  7. What a cute boy malachi is!!!!! I just read the blog and just fall in love with your story. Amazing :)

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